Monday, May 12, 2008

make PIF part of your everyday life

submitted by dana:

It is such an amazing feeling when you are given the opportunity to do something meaningful for someone else. Especially when you don't realize what you have done until later. It is amazing how some things come into your life and suddenly for some reason it all makes sense and feels right. For the past week a friendship has been formed under unusual circumstances, yet through it the true gift came...not in any shape or form, but by being. Being a friend, being an ear to listen, and a rock to support...sometimes it is not the person who is need, but the person providing that gains the ultimate gift. It very much humbles you to learn that you are truly wanted and needed.

The act of giving and receiving has been around for ages, but always with one you expect the other. It is rare to find someone who is willing to give without first receiving, yet when you find one, from the cracks the others will emerge. A movement will be started, and paying it forward will become part of everyday life without you actually realizing it.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

how PIF hawaii started

i started PIF hawaii at the company i worked at. i wanted to come up with a way for our employees to better connect, think about others, and improve the already great culture that our company has.

the idea basically started from one gift. one of my co-workers always complained about not having caller-id on her fancy phone. for some reason, she couldn't have the top-of-the-line speaker phone and caller-id in her office (the fancy speaker phones had no caller-id). no idea why. nevertheless she endured that for a year or so. she'll kill me for saying this, but i finally got tired of her complaining and decided that i would make it my goal to solve her problem (i'm joking about the complaining part). i talked to our IT staff and figured out that her office supported caller-id but we didn't have separate caller-id boxes; since she had the fancy phone, she was out of luck. so, i decided that i'd surprise her with a gift. i went to radioshack and bought her a caller-id. later that night, i started to think about the many other random gifts that i could give other co-workers. for example, i wanted to get one co-worker a coffee mug, because every day he uses a small little styrofoam cup for his morning coffee. i didn't really think about "pay it forward" yet, but i knew that i wanted to do get other co-workers small gifts too.

the next day, i gave the caller-id to my co-worker. we tested the device and it worked. she was happy and really thankful. and i was happy to do that for her. we talked later about why i got that for her and i explained that i wanted to get gifts for some of the other co-workers. somewhere in our discussion we figured out that we should try pay it forward. what a great idea!

so, i set out to bring pay it forward to my company. and it started the very next day when my caller-id-coworker bought another co-worker a coffee mug (actually the nice japanese tea cup). then, i PIF'ed (pay it forward) three other people and the movement took off. reaching at least 20 other employees in a month. people got stuffed animals that made noise (a office toy), a custom made t-shirt, a rubiks cube, a series of books, expensive chocolate, wine, gift certificate to a spa, helping someone move their furniture, and screwdriver. and more importantly, each gift came with a smile.

at some point, i knew i wanted to take the great success and fun our company was having with PIF to the rest of hawaii. and i guess now, i'm ready to see if its going work. i'm pledging to PIF at least 3 people. and i hope that some of my co-workers will too. it doesn't have to be something expensive or even that great. it really is the thought that counts. really, i promise.

i suppose the biggest unknown is whether this blog would be utilized at all. will people want to share their stories about PIFing or being PIFed? i have no idea. we shall see. whatever happens, i just hope that people think more about other people. its the small things that really make a difference.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

pay it forward hawaii has officially started

i finally was able to create a blog space for this cool new initiative. pay it forward hawaii is a grass roots type initiative to bring smiles and love to the people of hawaii. in the next week, i'll hopefully finish up the technical and organizational issues and get started on my pay it forward.

here are somethings to figure out

  • i want people to be able to share their PIF stories; for example what it meant to them that someone PIF them. or maybe what it felt like to PIF someone else. or i want people just to be able to reflect on the entire experience.
  • i wonder if i can get someone to help me make this blog template nicer. or even make me a logo of some sort.
  • how do people submit their stories? i setup an email payitforwardhawaii@gmail.com maybe thats the best way?

    anyway, i'm pretty excited to see whats going to happen. this is basically one big social experiment. but, i'm more excited to see if we bring smiles to peoples' faces.

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